{"id":15206,"date":"2025-09-30T10:42:28","date_gmt":"2025-09-30T10:42:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.joeyvelberg.com\/?p=15206"},"modified":"2025-10-02T10:50:42","modified_gmt":"2025-10-02T10:50:42","slug":"letting-go","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.joeyvelberg.com\/nl\/letting-go\/","title":{"rendered":"Loslaten"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Letting go<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><br>In just a few weeks, we&#8217;ll have national elections again. Many people have, somewhat rightly, lost interest. Yet, I&#8217;m noticing the opposite trend: for the first time in years, I have a glimmer of hope.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><br>Flamish council<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>In our society, the realization is slowly sinking in that the populist right wing has made a mess of things. If recent <a href=\"https:\/\/peilingwijzer.tomlouwerse.nl\">polls<\/a> are to be believed, the electorate is starting to shift back toward the center.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I saw that disasters can also lead to insights during a broadcast of <a href=\"https:\/\/eva.avrotros.nl\/artikel\/de-uitzending-van-15-september-823\">Eva<\/a>, where she spoke with well-known Flemish people about politics in the Netherlands. For example, Evi Hanssen spoke about letting go of political expectations: &#8220;With us [in Flanders] it&#8217;s always a mess. But we know: we&#8217;ll get through this.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Author Tom Lanoye adds: In his view, the Dutch are &#8220;serial messianists.&#8221; He was referring to the fact that we eagerly await a political savior every election. Don&#8217;t rely too much on politics, say these Flemish people.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><br>Tao<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>The conversation with Eva ties in with several books I&#8217;ve been reading in recent months, including Lao Zi&#8217;s &#8216;The Book of Tao.&#8217; <a href=\"https:\/\/nl.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Tao%C3%AFsme\">Taoism<\/a> is based on the belief that each of us already possesses everything within us to live a good life (Tao means &#8220;source&#8221;). And that living a good life therefore boils down to the noble art of &#8220;doing nothing.&#8221; Everything else, including the pursuit of political influence or blindly trusting politicians, is merely a distraction.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It gives me wonderful insights. That living life is enough, for example. That self-awareness doesn&#8217;t come from outside, but from within. And that by doing nothing, you connect with the energy of the universe. To name just a few highlights. That resonates.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>At the same time, it also causes friction. Values \u200b\u200blike &#8220;justice&#8221; and &#8220;humanity&#8221; are seen as external creations, and therefore superfluous. It&#8217;s better to avoid political positions and active volunteerism, as they would only be vain and distract from the right path (Tao means &#8220;source&#8221; as well as &#8220;way&#8221;).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Gaining knowledge is also seen as a distraction. After all, why learn things when you already have everything? To quote our neighbors to the south: I&#8217;m a serial student. I devour knowledge \u2014 through books, courses, education programmes, etc. And I love it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><br>Faber<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>It also clashes with my perspective on politics. Personally, I believe we need leaders right now who master the art of leadership. Who sense what&#8217;s needed and dare to move a country toward it. Not out of vanity, indeed, but with vision and decisiveness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Besides books on Taoism, I&#8217;ve also been reading other works in recent weeks. One example is &#8216;A Different Kind of Power,&#8217; the memoir by former New Zealand Prime Minister <a href=\"https:\/\/www.panmacmillan.com\/authors\/jacinda-ardern\/a-different-kind-of-power\/9781035045402\">Jacinda Arden<\/a>. In it, she shows how things can be done differently: a politics based on authenticity, service, and integrity.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It&#8217;s a coincidence that another political memoir was published last week: that of Marjolein Faber, former Minister of Asylum for the PVV in the Schoof I cabinet. This book was expertly reviewed \u2014 read: dissected \u2014 by Sheila Sitalsing in her <a href=\"https:\/\/www.volkskrant.nl\/columns-opinie\/elf-maanden-krankzinnigheid-in-den-haag-maar-faber-zou-het-zo-weer-doen~b51243b33\/?referrer=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.ecosia.org%2F\">column<\/a> in de Volkskrant, as only Sheila Sitalsing can. So I don&#8217;t need to repeat that here. What I will say: I refuse to buy the book. And I look forward to reading it. Because it says a lot about us, as a society, right now.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><br>Boring<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>I&#8217;m going to accept the shouting and try to listen to what people are actually trying to say. Let&#8217;s work together to bring politics back to what it&#8217;s supposed to be about: substance. I want us to enjoy solid, boring debates that will get the Netherlands moving again. During election season, but hopefully long afterward as well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I wish you much wisdom in the voting booth.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Blog post over de noodzaak om los te laten om vooruit te kunnen.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":15208,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[15,79,75,82,81,74,78,72,73,80,70,77,21],"class_list":["post-15206","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-article","tag-blog","tag-eva","tag-jacindaardern","tag-laozi","tag-marjoleinfaber","tag-politiek","tag-sheilasitalsing","tag-tao","tag-taoisme","tag-universum","tag-verkiezingen","tag-volkskrant","tag-youngmaster"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/www.joeyvelberg.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/pexels-arts-1496372-scaled.jpg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.joeyvelberg.com\/nl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15206","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.joeyvelberg.com\/nl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.joeyvelberg.com\/nl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.joeyvelberg.com\/nl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.joeyvelberg.com\/nl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15206"}],"version-history":[{"count":19,"href":"https:\/\/www.joeyvelberg.com\/nl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15206\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":15274,"href":"https:\/\/www.joeyvelberg.com\/nl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15206\/revisions\/15274"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.joeyvelberg.com\/nl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/15208"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.joeyvelberg.com\/nl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15206"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.joeyvelberg.com\/nl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=15206"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.joeyvelberg.com\/nl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=15206"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}