Masculinity

The world has changed dramatically, and will continue to do so. Especially for men, this poses certain challenges. We can no longer rely on traditional societal roles to guide our lives. In the essence, this is an opportunity. We have the chance to ask ourselves: what kind of man do I wish to be? A transformation is possible, if only one has the courage to change.

Masculinity is due for change. Academic work on the societal necessity of this is increasingly present. But what about the stories of men who are renewing themselves and their masculinity? What challenges do they face? And how have they embraced a new form of masculinity? 

Weg met mannelijkheid tells the personal story of this transformation. Joey Velberg takes you to moments that have been defining for his development and shows how themes such as identity, sexuality, work and family have played a role in this. Join him on a journey through this candid book and discover, just like Joey, how you can be more human as a man. So that you can take your place in today’s society.

My name is Joey Velberg and I work as a transformative masculinity coach. In my work, I guide men, in the broadest sense of the word, who want to embrace the challenges of our time and start a personal transformation process. In ‘Man & Zacht’ I engage in conversation with various people to explore the theme of masculinity even further.

Men* enter my coaching practice with questions like: ‘Why am I not making progress in my career?’ ‘How come I am not able to build relationships?’ and ‘Things were going well for so long, why can’t I get back on my feet after a relatively minor setback?’. Sooner or later, these conversations almost always lead to themes such as social expectations, socialization, family roles and relationship with your self. In other words: masculinity. 

More than we often realize, masculinity plays a major role in what we think, feel and who we are. Many men want to make a positive change, but just don’t have the tools to do it yet. In my practice, I support men who want to use the challenges of our time to start a personal transformation process. So that you can create a form of masculinity that is good for you and the world around you. And you can take your place in today’s society.

My expertise in combination with my own life experiences, has allowed me to specialize in the following themes:
– Personal leadership
– Connecting body and mind
– Emotion regulation
– Core values
– Communication

This trajectory can be completed entirely online, allowing you to explore your masculinity at your own pace and in your own time. 

*When I say ‘men’, I mean all men: cisgender and transgender, straight and queer, and all colors. 

Gender is a construct. Therefore, so is masculinity. And yet few things in life seem so rigid and ubiquitous as masculinity. The number of boys and men* openly struggling with their gender identity is rising. During this dialogue session, I use my experience as writer, coach and trainer to make sure everybody feels safe to share their thoughts and experiences. In doing so, I strive to create a meaningful environment for candor conversations. Feel welcome to join and get one step closer in renewing your masculinity.

This training includes:
– Safe(r) space
– (de)Constructing masculinity
– Emotion regulation
– Consent
– Communication tools for your ongoing journey

When: On request
Where: In company
For how many people  : Between 8 – 12
Costs : €500** per daypart / €900** whole day

*When I say ‘men’, I mean all men: cisgender and transgender, straight and queer, and all colors. 

**Excluding traveling costs and venue (if applicable). Exempted from VAT. 

Men* enter my coaching practice with questions like: ‘Why am I not making progress in my career?’ ‘How come I am not able to build relationships?’ and ‘Things were going well for so long, why can’t I get back on my feet after a relatively minor setback?’. Sooner or later, these conversations almost always lead to themes such as social expectations, socialization, family roles and relationship with your self. In other words: masculinity. 

My style as a chairperson can be described as both professional as well as personal. The stories I share are based on facts and life experience, and always current. And my contribution is of course tailored to the event.

Things I focus on:
– Social safety
– Mutual respect
– Dialogue

Are you a freelancer (to be) with a vision? Do you want to grow your business while staying true to your values? This business coaching is specifically designed for idealistic professionals who want to make an impact and achieve financial stability.

In the coaching  trajectory for freelancers, I support you in discovering your mission. I then guide you in translating your mission into achievable steps, so that every action within your business contributes to achieving your goal, realizing customer value and positive change.

We will also explore the most optimal pricing and service strategy together, ensuring it reflects the core of your business while remaining profitable and efficient.

This coaching program includes:
– Basics of entrepreneurship
– Leadership
– Strategy
– Organisation
– Execution

Are you looking for personalized, practical and customized guidance — comparable to an MBA, but for a fraction of the price? Don’t wait any longer and start your business coaching for freelancers today.

When: On request
Where : Online / On location
Costs: €150* per hour

*Excluding traveling costs and venue (if applicable).